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November 21 一次不忠，百次不用"一次不忠，百次不用", one time undutiful, hundred time not be use. Most the time, we will have this concept in our mindset. Is't right to think like this? One time wrong your whole life will "hangkang". Should it be like this?
Nowadays, this society are lact of a talent. Many places also need those people that can do things. Even if the companies need the talent people, what about the non-trading places or the organization? But where to find? Where can find a perfect one? Where can find a real one that is talent? There is no perfect in this world.
Nowadays, there are not many talent people in this world. Most of the talent people are learn from their mistakes. No one can do hundred percent right since they born. No one can garantee what they do are perfect. No one can sure they won't have a mistake. Who can say that they did not did wrong before? Why just count their bads but not their goods? What the benefit you can get from counting their mistake.
We should not obliterate someone chance to learn a lesson from their mistake. Even though they make a mistake, but maybe because of the mistake they learn a lesson and won't make a same mistake again anymore. Even though they are not a really talent people, but base on the experience that they gain everyday, they might more useful than the talent people without any experience.
For an example, a worker who make a total loss of 1 million to the company because of his mistake. But maybe because of this lesson he could learn from the mistake and won't make the same mistake but help the company make the profit more than 1 million. But if the company fire the worker and not give him a chance to correct his mistake, maybe the company will make a loss which more than the 1 million. Because if the company fire the worker and hire the new one, you can't garantee that the new worker will not make a same mistake again, but the old one will not make again because he got a lesson before. The same theory. Even not in the companies, this theory can use in everywhere. We should find out the problem when it occur and solve it but not just blame or find a person to responsible to the problem.
We should give them a chance just like how God give us chance. God not just give us a chance, but is unlimited. No matter what wrong we have done, if we come back to him and confess our sins or our wrongs He will also forgive us.
I'm very thanks God that i'm still got the chance to learn from the mistake and continue serve Him even though I had made many mistake. He give me the chance to learn from the mistake and continue to serve Him. October 22 Good boy or Bad boy?Sometimes very confuse with this. To be a good boy or be a bad boy? I was tried to be a god boy these years, but seems like not very success. Don't know why, every time I did something must got many comments. "You should not like this", "how dare you do this", "why?", "who told you to do so", "do you know what the affect after you do this?", so many comments. Most of them are negative one. I'm just a human. I got my limit. I also got feeling. Why not try to give some positive comments? Do you know when you do something but can't get what you wish is very hurt.
Someone asked me, "why you not fight back when they scolding on you or comment to you or step on you?".
Why? I also don't know why? Why I'm not fight back? Why I just let them keep on step on me? I don't know. At started, I think that as long as I keep endure with them all will become good. What I think was talk back with them are no use. Maybe because I'm the lazy type. Why we have to waste our energy or spirit t talk back. For me its useless. Talk back will just lengthened the missunderstand. Once we talk back there will be no end until someone give up. So normally I'll just choose to be silent, or just admit what they said although I'm not.
Someone told me, sometimes we have to be bad one to protect ourselves so that not be step by other. I don't know whether It's right o wrong.
Maybe become a bad boy are good also. At least not be bully by others. Bsides, there ls also some advantages to be bad boys. People said, "男人不坏，女人不爱!" I think It's funny. Is't becomea bad boy will got many girl like? Is't true? Some said, be a bad boy is cool.
For me be a bad boy maybe is not a big deal. We can be bad, but just don't do something will harm ourselves or others.
I'm confusing now. Who can help me? To be a good boy or be a bad boy? Please vote for me? Good or Bad? October 16 A FriendshipA true friendship. I didn't know either everyone are hope for it or not. But, I sure I am the one. I'm so luckily that I already have a true friendship in my life. I'm so happy because our friendship are strong enough.
Nobody can give an defination about a friendship that can accept by everyone include me. The mindset of everyone are different. Different people they have their own defination about friendship. Some of them think that a true friendship is to talk everytime; or some of them think that they share everything, so this is their friendship do; or some of them think that when they need friend they will come out immediately, thats call friend. Maybe this is right.
In my case, a true and a health friendship is what we share our secret. We trust each other. We understand each other. We learn to say sorry when needed. We forgive each other when did something wrong. We spend time together. We matto(means crazy in Italian) together. We encourage each other. Stand on his/her side and think for him/her. We discuss and we learn.
Thanks God that He give me friend to support me in my life. Some of them ask why we just share our problems to friends but not share with parents. We know that parents are love us. They love us with all their heart. They sacrifice their time to grow us. But, it cannot be denied that the generation gap and some of the factors cause the teenagers to do so.
Of course I share my things to my parents also. Besides my parents I also share my secret to my friends. But some secret I only share to my best friend.
Somebody said that "Friendship ends when you stop sharing". I think that might right. I agree what my friend said. No one can know what we think if we not share it out. Share to friend is the way to feed up a friendship. October 11 Exam is comingExam is coming, but my body health seems like getting to sick.
Don't know why.
Maybe is because stress for the coming examination.
This year end, I have to faced two important exam.
One is the school year end exam, and another is the Lcci paper from the London.
Just listen the name already feel stress.
Gonna get good result on it.
Hope can recover soon.
God, please give me strength and a good health to face this two exam.
September 28 Moon CakeWoooushhhhh.... Moon Festival is coming soon. Everyone can enjoy with TangLung again.
Kids, young people,adult even old guys like "gong gong" "po po" also can play.
Holding a TangLung, Walk together in a geng with friends at the park.
Very miss the time when walk together with friend.
Beside the TangLung, the moon cake also nice. Every year also got many new
type of moon cake come out. But, the flavour I like most is the red bean moon cake. I like it very much.
I still remember that got one time I ate almost 10 red bean moon cake during the moon festival.
Think like very crazy....
Every year, my mother must buy a box of red bean moon cake to me. The moon cake is only for me.
Hahahahaha.... My mother love me very much.
But I also shared some to my brother and sister of corse.
This year i also got a box of red bean moon cake.
Hahahahahaha...
Nice, and delicious.. September 23 HikingWell, today I was went to hiking with my friends Jun Fui and Kiong. We were very enjoyed during the hiking. Found the way out, pass through the dangerous places and kept alert to thewild animal. Very happy to have this hiking. Don't know how to describe how nice was our hiking, so please just look at the pictures and imagine it.
Our hiking was started at 6 o'clock in the morning. That was still early, so all the way we went to trighill was very quite.
 Think of this picture make me remember that God is provide the way to us and He Himself is the way. Back to the topic. Early in the morning, I think there is no other young people like us will come and jog. At the begining, we thought that there were no other people will jog at this early. Who knows there were uncles and aunties jog at that time and they came to us and say well done to us. Very funny, we don't know who they are but they just suddenly came and talk to us.  So, this is the top of the trighill and also the view of Sandakan town. actually Sandakan is a nice place to stay. Well, after arrived the top, we had a rest for 5 minutes then we continue again.   This was the way enter into the forest. We din't bring anything in just a bag to carried our bottles. We were tried to find some hard braches to defense ourselves and to used it to open the way so that we can walked easy. We spent about 1 hour inside this forest to find the way out. There many places that could let us pass through. During the time walked inside, there were a problem were faced. That was which way we should go. Some places inside have a fork. We had to choose either the right way or the left way. We really have to thanks God for His protection. He really provide the way to us. We saw the marks of the people left there, so we just followed the marks and keep walked. One hour later,
 finally we came out from the forest and walked in this place.
After this, we continue our journey again. Until here we were still save and haven't get lost. After about 10 minutes later, we started confuse again which way way should be go. This is because there are more than 2 ways can pass through and there were a bit different with few years ago. So we just find a way and continue Finally we finished our hiking at 9 o'clock.
September 21 LollipopsLollipop, sweets, and chocolate, these are the few junk food I like most. Everytime when I was in a bad mood I will, once I ate sweets my mood will change good.
Recently, I have started to collected the Lollipops. Don't know why, I very like the lollipops now. The most nice brand I know for the Lollipops is Chupa Chups. This brand lollipops quite nice. Got many type of flavour. I think they have more than 20 types flavour. But now I just got 5 types of flavour only. I'm trying to collect the others flavour, but until now still don't know where can I found them.
These are my collection, I just collect few of these:
  These are the 5 lollipops I had collected,
 The Chocolate flavour,
 The fruit flavour,
 My lollipops with the LV key chain.
Before this, I have thought to open a shop just for sales sweets. This is one of my dream. But it's hard to realize this dream anymore, cause there are not just me got this dream. Many of them also got this dream and they're already realize their dream. One of the shop I know is from UK. They got online service also. If you want to buy sweets u can go to http://www.chocolatebuttons.co.uk/ to buy it. But, they only sale in a big quantity. They got thousands type of sweet, you can enjoy shopping there.
Lollipop, sweets, and chocolate, these things can make people feel sweet when they eat it, but it's also make people sick if eat too much of it. Our body needs glucose, but too much may bring harm to body too. So, I'm trying to control now. Not to eat too much of these food. September 19 HomeworkFinally, the holiday was started. But, the holiday just like nonsen. Everyday wake up have to face with the exercise. After the exercise then eat something, then continue homework again. haiz.... The homework almosthigher than the Kinabalu mount. Do until crazy. haiz... But never mind, cause i'm enjoy also. Like to be crazy. September 16 Holiday again....Holiday again! Why Sabah got so many holiday? Why? Who can tell me? If I'm not wrong, Sabah is the place that have the most holiday around the world. I think there is no other place like Sabah have so much holiday. For my research, I found that there are 20 days public holiday for Sabah which still not include the school holiday. But, I was shocked when I counted the total holiday in Sabah. And the result is, there are 106 days holidays in Sabah. What a big amount!
Don't know whether this is a good fenomena or the bad one. How the student can be study in this condition. Beside this 106 days holiday, there're still got other extra holiday which apply from the school. For example the Chinese New Year, Hari Raya and not forget also the one week holiday for the AH1N1. There are too many holiday, how can the student can concentrate in their study?
Human are very strange. When you are in they study, everyday u hope the holiday will come faster or maybe tomorrow will be the holiday. But, when the holiday are arrive everyday will hope that the holiday can end faster.
Tomorrow is the holiday again, so I should be happy or what? September 12 A Funny Morning CallLast night, my fiend Khen came to my house sleep. We settle somethings until 4 a.m. then started to sleep. So, this morning a bit late wake up. When we still dreaming on the bed, suddely wetwo heard a sound. A boy shouted. That was my brother. When we still sleeping there, suddenly we heard my brother shouted loudly and said :"傻老啊，傻老啊，快点起身啊！Once we heard this we quickly jump up and ran to the kitchen prepare to fight with the 傻老. Once we arrived there, as it turns out that was my grandmother. My brother told me that got people give out some unnature voice like the 傻老 and we two heard that too. Thats why we ran out and have a looked. When I asked my grandmother why she scream, then she answer got cat at my backyard. Thas why we screamed. What a funny morning call for us. This shout wake all of us at home. |
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